Tag: turning 40

  • What Felt Different This Year

    What Felt Different This Year

    What Expectations I Had About Turning 40 That Simply Didn’t Materialize Turning 40 is kind of like turning any other age. Nothing really changes, and I think I’m still too close to it to notice anything meaningful yet. Time needs to pass before anything becomes notable. I half expected a moment where I suddenly felt…

  • What I Refuse to Feel Bad About at 40

    What I Refuse to Feel Bad About at 40

    Turning 40 brings a sense of clarity and the realization that personal choices should not be dictated by societal expectations. The author reflects on valuing comfort, building a smaller inner circle, saying no assertively, and embracing personal interests without guilt. These insights represent newfound boundaries and a commitment to self-acceptance.

  • Turning 40 and Still Paying Attention

    Turning 40 and Still Paying Attention

    Even though this post is about turning 40, let me take you back ten years. January 14, 2016. I had an early morning, so it was still dark. I woke up and wandered to the bathroom, barely awake. I remember perking up once I looked in the mirror because even though I knew it was…